The transition to college is exciting, but it can also be challenging—especially when it comes to making friends. If you or your student is struggling to find their social circle at the University of Florida, know that you’re not alone. A recent post in a UF parents’ group highlighted this very issue: a student who enjoys his classes and activities but hasn’t yet found his close group of friends. So, how do you find your people at a massive university like UF? Here are some proven ways to get connected and feel more at home in The Swamp.

1. Get Involved in Clubs and Organizations (And Stick With It!)

UF has over 1,000 student organizations, ranging from academic societies to cultural groups, sports clubs, and hobby-based organizations. The key isn’t just signing up—it’s staying committed. Attend multiple meetings, engage in conversations, and participate in group activities. It can take time, but the more you show up, the more people will begin to recognize and include you.

2. Get a Part-Time Job in Gainesville

One of the best ways to make friends? Work with other students. Many students at UF find their core group of friends through part-time jobs.

As I shared in response to the parent’s Facebook post, I know a lot of parents want school to be their student’s primary focus, but I encourage students to find a local part-time job, particularly at places that hire a lot of students. Not only does this create built-in social circles, but studies show that students who work part-time actually perform better in school because they have to manage their time effectively. Plus, they gain real-world skills that will benefit them in any career. Jobs like working at a coffee shop, on-campus dining, a scooter dealership (like ours!), or a local gym can lead to lasting friendships.

3. Find a College-Aged Church Group

For students who value faith-based community, a college church group can be an incredible way to connect with others. Gainesville has several churches with thriving college ministries, including:

• The Family Church (soon to be Bridge City Community Church) – The college ministry leader, Dustin, is a personal friend of mine and such an incredible person!
• Greenhouse Church – Offers student small groups and a vibrant college ministry.
• First Baptist Church of Gainesville – Hosts gatherings specifically for UF students.
• Christ Community Church – A great option for those looking for smaller, tight-knit groups.
• Cru & Young Life – Campus-based Christian organizations that offer Bible studies, events, and mission trips.

Beyond the faith aspect, church groups provide a built-in community of people who genuinely want to connect and support one another.

4. Go to Campus Events and Gator Nights

UF hosts tons of free events throughout the semester, including Gator Nights (Friday night movies, free food, and activities at the Reitz Union), concerts, guest speakers, and sports tailgates. These events are designed for students to meet new people in a relaxed setting. Even if you go alone, you might leave with a new friend or two.

5. Live in a Social Housing Environment

If your student is living in an apartment and feeling isolated, encourage them to consider dorms, co-ops, or Greek life housing options. Many students make their closest friends in their residence halls, but that doesn’t mean it’s too late to switch it up. Some apartments also offer social events and activities to help residents meet one another.

6. Take Advantage of UF’s Resources

If feelings of loneliness persist, UF offers counseling services and peer support groups through UF’s Counseling and Wellness Center. Sometimes, just talking about these challenges with others who are in the same boat can help students feel more connected.

Stay the Course – It’s a College Thing, Not Just a UF Thing

It’s natural to feel disconnected at first, but that doesn’t mean transferring is the best solution. Every college student faces this challenge in some way. The key is pushing through that initial discomfort, putting yourself in situations to meet others, and giving friendships time to form.

For parents, your encouragement is everything. Keep reminding your students that they aren’t alone, and that finding friends takes time. The University of Florida is full of incredible people—it’s just a matter of finding the right place to connect!

At New Scooters 4 Less, we love being a part of the Gainesville community and helping students feel at home. I (Collin) have often been called “Gainesville’s Cool Uncle,” Lol! Over the years, I’ve helped college students with many non-scooter-related things; sometimes, it’s jump-starting a car battery, being there and reassuring a young lady that just had her purse stolen (and mom and dad being several states away) that everything will be ok (and guide her through what to do next), or it’s simply been being another adult nearby a student can talk to.

Whether you’re looking for a part-time job, need reliable transportation, or just want a friendly place to stop by, we’re here for you! Go Gators!